Thursday, 29 September 2011

Cannot Be Carefree


Good evening everyone hope everyone having nice time around. Well, I am starting up with my project matter again I guess I am having good time around spending my time on project with interesting research content on “Long Distance Relationship”. As if now, I am stick to it now I would love to share some experiences through my mood board picture which I have designed just now in PS. That is, girl missing boy, but Boy also missing her as and all he is never expressive towards her that hurts her feelings. Long Distance relationship is all the time complicated and delicate to handle. Because, boy and girl live far away from each other never know what they are doing every minute and every second. This brings frustration. Let us talk about psychology of men in love.

Men are not expressive always like girls. Men always say “Oh come on I am busy right now why the heck are you bothering me??” then girl get tear drops just like waterfalls lol... Now why men are not expressive?? Interesting factor is men do not like to chat neither type for so long for girls. Or they do not update much about themselves with their beloved one. This is their characteristic we cannot blame them. Now if  I will take the example from my experience I have been always wondering why does not he give the updates just like me?? Or why does he loose temper so often when I say “I miss you”,. It is because we are staying far away and he does not understand what to do when I say that, his side will be confused and with the minute he will be freeze thinking that “Oh God now how to console this girl?” Men are not much emotional in the case of love. I cannot give free judgment I guess may be they are not expressive but they hide feelings in heart. It totally depends on their mood..

Psychology of girls is also complicated I guess. Girls are very sensitive most of my friend asked me to stay carefree if he does not give you any message. I just don’t understand how can we be carefree?? Okay, if we will be carefree, our heart always drags into PC again and our hands automatically pull towards keyboard then we will keep on type “Where are you??? Why are you not updating me??” After the seconds of time here the messages pings out “I am busy girl sorry don’t bother me”. And countdown starts 1,2,3 tears down… I wish to see in long distance how my boyfriend will behave when I cry?? Will he be worried?? Or will he leave it aside then diverts himself with friends to get away from tears? Or he enjoys it?? Hmmm its weird thing to live on. Have you ever experienced this weird thing??

The bad factor is we do not know what he or she is doing exactly in “Long Distance Relationships?” Girls are so sincere and always go to fairytale land of world that they always give messages” Dear I had my lunch I had my diner or I am doing works” where as boys are not certain type I am sure.. So luckily I have consulted one of my friend who is also experiencing the essence of Long distance relationships.. And her statement was “No matter how much they are busy?? No matter if he or she is not replying your messages on time, you must stop concerning about it deeply and instead you have to divert with some other works”.

The moral is “Come on have patience. If you really want to be committed for long time until marriage never force your partner to come online. Otherwise the situations will become worse. Because, love is not force. If he or she is right in front of you, it is easy to shower your feelings either tears or happiness. But what if he or she is staying far away from you always share positive things happening in your life. Once you start sharing negative aspects, everything will go negative it may lead to break up .” I think I must follow this tip to save my long distance relationship. So I got fantastic idea again that I will implement this particular statement in my movie showing with interesting narrative structure. God my head is cracked down now..

So I will have cup of tea until then I wish you all have happy time but the next article is coming up about Chinese movie review.. Certainly after sometime.. 

So this is my mood board picture which I have made it in PS..
This is the certain common feeling
of lovers who are experiencing
Long Distance Relationships
And also this is the feeling which is
coming from my heart..
This is my theme poster
for my movie "Smile To Your Life"

1 comment:

  1. woh madhurima !!!its really sound very interesting
    well done yaar.Im eagerly waiting see the movie and the storyboard.
    your PS story board rocks keep going I liked very much

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