The painful thing is "when your lover will not have time to listen to your problems"

Yeah, the fact is sometimes your beloved one will not have enough time to listen to your problems. This is the dis-advantage carrying in "Long Distance Relationships”. Let’s take it from my experience. Today was such a bad day my parents have discouraged me with their fear that whether I can pass this project in future or not. According to me, it is not such a big problem, it is quiet natural for them to feel in that way, future is not in my hands as long as I have time I am working on my path very much sincerely. The most painful thing arises, when your lover will not have enough time to listen to your problems. Because he or she may be busy. As it happened to me today when I was sharing my problems my love could not hear me because he was busy with his study works. Boys are boys they will have so many affairs to do. But girls will rely on them. Hey, it is not in a bad way however we can understand that point. But somewhat there is grief that he could not listen to me. I felt so painful telling him "Good Bye" because the minute I thought, he can spend with me and I spoke to myself "Come on he lives far away from you , you must understand". And I straightened myself, then I said "Hmm okay good luck bye", but situation became worse he said "Your always angry with me". 

See, lets take this in one interesting way, you may miss your boyfriend or girlfriend oh what a eagerness to chat with him or her. But what a pity your free time and his free time will not match. If one day he is busy you will be free, if you will be free he will be busy. The disadvantage factor in "Long Distance relationships" is time factor. That is what, I am going to put this part of speech in my movie. I think I felt more painful when my love did not care my feeligs because of his busy affairs than my parents discouraging words. Hmmmm, at that time I may think "How I wish he could be over here so that he can understand me". If you guys have really experienced these things when you were in "Long distance" it would have been so painful feeling just like me. And the love is such a beautiful spirit, if your down, at that time when Your lover will tell you “Honey do not worry whatever happens, I am with you, do not cry, smile, smile, look at my face. I am in your heart and why fear?? So my sweetheart now has to smile come on give me one smile baby, yeah now that is like my sweetheart you look so cute in smile you know that?” wowww for a girl it gives so much happiness. But this is not just our dreams this is also boys dreams if they are down, their girlfriend can give encouragement in same way.

Therefore we cannot expect these sweet situations can happen in Long Distance Relationships. It is entirely different task. If your sad your partner will not be happy because he or she will be always thinking about you, frustration arises “Oh God why?? Why??? Why am I not beside him or her?? I should have been there how I wish he or she can be happy now??”. So we do not know the emotions. It is so helpless.

So all I wanted to say “Patience, calm, quiet and piece”. Because you cannot loose your love just like that. All the qualities which I mentioned just now is quiet important. Realization will pass through in true love.

So may be you all have understood what I am trying to say. So dear friends I have one small question. Can you all tell me “what is your opinion about love??” and what is your opinion about “Long Distance relationships”

I would love to hear answers from you..

This is me Madhu signing off, tomorrow it is gonna be interesting day, because I am going outside to take interview with people where I will be putting the same questions in front of them. Woww lets see how may different answers I can get?? It can help me for the part of my research and my project gonna be more interesting Just you all need to wait and see.

Good night everyone, keep smiling wish you all happy day tomorrow and remember “Smile To Your Life”